The Marriage of your Husband

O, Dear Sister...

If your husband remarried... I won’t speak for long here, for the sensitivity of this subject and its need for a detailed explanation; therefore, I can say briefly:

1- Don’t say about the Prophet’s prescribed rule, of re-marriage, that it is out of dishonesty to remarry... because it is an honor.
Sadly, and too sadly, for what is being published, said and translated, that a second marriage is a marital cheat and dishonesty: ﴾a grievous word it is that comes out of their mouths; they speak nothing but a lie﴿. The Cave-5

2- Don’t seclude yourself from your religion by saying what you are not supposed to say, by just following the desires of your spirit and don’t leave in your heart ﴾do not allow any spite to remain in our hearts towards those who believe﴿. The Banishment-10

3- Don’t be a free and cheap bugle to the talkative, curious, back-stabbers, envious women and people… those who care about “your benefit”!!!
God forbid us from the devils of man and demon (jinn): ﴾some of them suggesting to others varnished falsehood to deceive them﴿. The Cattle-112

4- Care for your husband’s religion and commitment to his after-life and don’t be selfish...

And resemble that good woman who said to her husband: “I swore to God that you won’t enter hell because of me”.

* Book: O, Dear Sister. By Sayyed Sami Bin Hassan Khadra.