... Muhammad ibn Ya'qub (al-Kulayni) from 'Ali ibn Ibrahim, from Muhammad ibn 'Isa,
from Yunus, from Aban, from Hakim; who says: "I asked Abu `Abd Allah (al-Imam
al-Sadiq) (A.S.) as to the lowest degree of ilhad (apostasy). He answered,
`Verily kibr (pride) is its lowest degree.' "1
What is Kibr?
Kibr is the name of a psychic state in which a person feels a sense of
superiority and behaves high-handedly with others. Its signs are discernible in
his actions and its symptoms are clearly noticed by others by which they know
that he is proud. Kibr is something different from `ujb, and, as mentioned
earlier, this vice is the offspring and fruit of the tree of `ujb. `Ujb consists
of self-love and conceit, and the meaning of kibr is to consider oneself
superior to others. When someone perceives a merit in himself and is overcome by
a sense of pleasure, exultation, and vanity, that state is called `ujb. And when
he considers others to be lacking in the imagined merit within himself, he
perceives himself to be superior. This perception of superiority and supremacy
over others causes in him a state of vanity which is pride. Kibr, in this sense,
is an inner state, and when its effects are reflected in his behaviour and his
speech, it is called takabbur. In short, the self-indulgent person becomes
self-seeking, and his self seeking tendency grows into self-love, and when this
self-love is filled to the brim it manifests itself as haughtiness and
high-handed treatment of others.
Here, it is necessary to mention that the psychic traits, whether vices and
infirmities or virtues and accomplishments, are extremely complicated and
complex matters. It becomes extremely difficult to discern one from the other.
On account of this, there is often a great difference of opinion even among
great scholars in precisely defining them and it may be impossible to give a
faultless definition of inner states. Therefore, it is better for us to leave
this matter to the inner conscience of individuals and not to entangle ourselves
in the maze of finding precise definitions, and turn attention to our main
purpose.
The Kinds and Degrees of Kibr:
It should be noted that there are different degrees of kibr, similar to the
stages and degrees that were mentioned during the discussion about `ujb.
However, there were some stages that could be mentioned with regard to `ujb, but
since they were not so important in that context we abstained from mentioning
them. Yet it is important to mention those stages in the context of kibr. But at
first let us note that the stages of kibr, similar to those of `ujb, are six in
number:
1. Kibr on account of possessing true faith and belief.
2. As opposed to it is the pride in invalid faith and false belief .
3. Pride on account of good qualities and praiseworthy attributes.
4. Pride in moral vices and undesirable qualities.
5. Pride in one's righteous deeds and devotional exercises.
6. Pride in sinful and wicked deeds.
It is possible that each one of these stages may be caused by the equivalent
degree of `ujb present in one's soul, or it may have some other reason, which we
shall discuss afterwards. For the time being, of our main concern here are the
external factors as sources of pride- like the pride in one's family, descent,
wealth, status, position, and the like. Following that, God willing, we shall
discuss the evils of this vice and their remedies, according to my ability. And
I implore God's help and assistance in making it effective upon others as well
as my own self.
There are certain other aspects and levels of kibr when considered in another
perspective. They are: (1) kibr towards God; (2) kibr towards His prophets,
messengers, and awliya' (3) kibr in regard to the Divine Commandments, which
also amounts to kibr towards God; (4) kibr towards the creatures of God, which,
too, according to the `urafa', amount