A Piece of Advice to Solve Family Issues
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One of Imam's daughters narrates: “At the start of my marriage, I went to Haaj Agha so that he could...
One of Imam’s daughters narrates: “At the start of my marriage, I went to Haaj
Agha so that he could give me some advice. He said: “If your husband is upset,
or if he says something to you for whatever reason, or acts badly, at that time
don’t say anything, even if you are in the right. Leave it until he has calmed
down, and then say what you have to.” He also gave the exact same advice to my
husband.
In the beginning I didn’t give this advice much importance. Later upon
reflection, I saw that indeed the root of many of the family disputes came back
to this very issue. Therefore, from then on, every time somebody has wanted
advice about family issues, I have given them this very same advice of the Imam.
* Notes: Paa be Paaye Aaftab, Vol 4, Pg. 140
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