What exactly is Cheating?
Cheating is when a person misleads, deceives, or acts dishonestly on purpose.
For kids, cheating may happen at school, at home, or while Playing a sport. If a
baseball team is for kids who are 8 or younger, it's cheating for 9- year- old
to play on the team and hit home run after home run.
At school, in addition to cheating on a test, a kid might cheat by stealing
someone else's idea for a science project or by copying a book report off the
Internet and turning it in as if it's his or her original work.
Copying someone else's words or work and saying they're yours is a type of
cheating called plaerizm.
How do people cheat?
Cheating can happen in a lot of different ways. Hamid is doing it by sneaking
answers to a test, but it's also cheating to break the rules of a game or
contest or to pretend something it in as if it's yours work it isn't. When
people cheat, it's not fair to other people, like the kids who studied for the
test or who were the true winners of a game or contest.
It's tempting to cheat because it makes difficult things seem easy, like getting
all the right answers on the test. But it doesn't solve the problem of not
knowing the material and it won't help on the next test- unless the person
cheats again.
Sometimes it may seem like cheaters have it all figured out. They can watch TV
instead of studying for the spelling test. But other People lose respect for
cheaters and think less of them. The cheaters themselves may feel bad because
they know they are not really earning that good grade. And, if they get caught
cheating, they will be in trouble at school, and maybe at home, too.
Why Kids Cheat
Some kids cheat because they're lazy and they want to get good grades without
spending the time for studying. Other kids might feel like they can't pass the
test without cheating. Even when there seems to be a ''good reason'' for
cheating, cheating isn't a good idea.
If you were sick or upset about something the night before and couldn't study,
it would be better to talk with the teacher about this. And if you don't have
enough time to study for a test because of swim practice, you need to talk with
your parents about how to balance swimming and school.
A kid who thinks cheating is the only way to pass a test needs to talk with the
teacher and his or her parents so they can find some solutions together. Talking
about these problems and working them out will led to feel better than cheating.
Truth and Consequences
Many kids feel tempted to cheat once in a while most resist and to the work
instead. Some kids cheat once and feel so bad and unfortunately, some kids start
cheating and feel like they can't stop.
Kids who cheat may feel worried about getting caught. Even if the cheater feels
fine or doesn't get caught, that doesn't mean it's Ok. If you see someone
cheating, or if someone asks to copy your work, you can tell a teacher or
another grown-up.
If a kid gets caught cheating, the teacher may give the kid a ''zero'' score on
the test, send him or her to the principal's office, and contact his or her
parents. Worse than the bad grade may be the feeling of having other people
disappointed, like parents and teachers. A parent may worry that you are not an
honest person and a teacher might watch you more closely the next time you're
taking a test.
Making a Comeback
There are plenty of reasons why a kid shouldn't cheat, but some kids have
already cheated. If that's you, it's never to stop cheating. Cheating can become
a habit, but like other bad habits, a kid can always decide to act better and
make better choices. It might help to talk problem over with parent, teacher, or
counselor. Choosing to play fair and be honest again can help a kid feel
relieved and proud.
There's an old saying that
CHEATERS NEVER WIN AND WINNERS NEVWR CHEAT.
This may sound confusing because sometimes it seems cheaters do win- at least
for the moment. But kids who don't cheat are true winners because when they win,
they do it fair and square.
* Compiled by Minoo Kasaeian